Can a family use a power of attorney for a reverse mortgage?

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In a HECM file, there was a recorded durable power of attorney and a question about competency in connection with signing. Conservatorship came into the discussion too.

The immediate obstacle was not how much money the loan might provide.

We needed an accepted way to complete the transaction on the homeowner's behalf.

Bring the authority question forward

A recorded power of attorney gives the team a document to review. It does not automatically settle every lender, title, signing or counseling requirement.

I would have the actual documents reviewed early, before the family relies on a closing date or spends money on steps that may need to wait.

That does not mean every family in a similar situation needs conservatorship. The attorney needs to address the legal questions for that person and those documents.

Give each professional a clear job

The attorney addresses legal authority and capacity. The lender and title team review what they can accept for the transaction. The counselor needs to know how the required counseling can be completed.

I can help coordinate what the lender needs. I cannot make the family's legal-capacity determination.

Who owns the home and would be the borrower?
Who is expected to sign?
What document gives that person authority?
Have all pages and amendments been reviewed?
What still needs to be resolved for counseling and closing?

Keep the housing goal in the conversation

The family may be trying to improve cash flow or help the homeowner stay in the home. We can discuss that goal while the authority questions are being reviewed.

I would keep the financial plan and the document checklist together, with tentative dates clearly identified.

The family should not have to discover a legal-document problem at the closing table.

Start with the general goal and who is helping. We can arrange a secure way to provide the documents and coordinate with the attorney. Please keep medical and identity documents out of a general contact message.

This example is based on a real mortgage discussion with identifying information removed. Any numbers are illustrative and are not current loan terms or a commitment to lend. Loan programs, rates, property values and borrower qualification vary.

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